How To Charm A Girl

 from Modern Dating Advice

Most men think they have got it all. The humor, the character, strong personality, attractiveness, muscles and manhood but that is not enough. 

If you want to identify yourself as a man, then you need to have an awesome drive. And I’m not just talking about ‘sex drive’, but also the strong emotional desire to get the girl of your dreams.

The drive you experience needs to be fulfilled. If you ignore your drive, you are in simple terms, denying your manhood. 

Whether it is the fear of talking to a girl, fear of moving forward in a conversation or fear of commitment, men who let their drives burn out by not doing anything about it, are not real men at all!

How to charm a girl? Here are some of the best tips to help you out

1: Release the Bait – Bit by Bit

It is an open secret that girls are naturally attracted to men who have a “mystery” feel surrounding them. So that means you cannot give away everything about yourself on the first date. I know this is counter-intuitive. If you’re like most guys, you will want to share everything about you right from the day you are born to where you are.

And even if the lady does demand you to do that, be smart. Share only pieces of your past.

So the key is to titillate her curiosity again and again. The better you can do it, the more control you have over the outcome.

2: Never Give Your All at the Start

Humans are just never going to be satisfied. Once they get something they want, they will start asking for something else. It is just how things are. It is not entirely bad because it’s the driving force behind “constant improvements”, but in relationships… It can certainly work against you.

3: How to charm a girl by successfully using push/pull or pull/push:

Push/pull consists of alternating pleasure with pain; you push a girl away and then draw her back in. They are effective because they confuse a girl and compel her to spend mental effort trying to “figure you out”. Pushes consist of playful teases, ignoring her briefly, or being harsh. Pulls consist of warmness, compliments, and attention.

Alternate between pushing and pulling to get attraction points. For example, you might text a girl, be super friendly (pull) and then all of a sudden stop responding to her text messages (push). You might talk to her and make her laugh every day, and then all of a sudden walk by her without saying a word.

Finally, there is direct conversational push pull. This shows that you are willing to joke around with the girl, and it demonstrates high value because you are not afraid to make fun of her. To use conversational push pull, you might call whatever she does for a living stupid. You would then wait for a response, and after she responds you would tell her that you were just teasing and that you think what she does is cool. You get the idea.

4: Never Pressurize a girl to come to a decision

If you drop the question and your girl says she wants to think about it, then give her time. You may ask her questions like, “Can I know what is stopping you? Is it you do not like me?” and the sorts.

But never text her every other hour, asking her for a response. But if you have already done so, continue to drop more baits about yourself and do more romantic things to move her deeper into the “romantic mode”.

I know it may feel like a lot of things to be done, but just take this one step at a time.

Remember the most important key of all…

Action = Results

If you seriously want to know how to charm a girl, you must take action and not leave things to chance.

Good luck! Put a smile on your face and go get her! I have faith you can do this…