Powerful Dating Tips

There are thousands of Girls

Take a look at your city (from a hill outside of the town, or on a map) and just realize this: "There ARE at this very moment thousands of women (of any age) needing a boy-friend. It IS possible to meet some of them." Do not despair by assuming that there are no girls at all in your hometown or that all girls "are taken". Think about it this way: "Probably I have already met 10 single girls today: In the bus, on the street, in McDonald's, while shopping,..."

Leave your home

I think it is pretty safe to assume, that if you lock yourself into a small room at home and read books/ play computer games the whole day you will never find a girl as long as you do it. No, they usually don't come out of the book (no matter how good the book is). No, they won't come by themselves to join in playing the PC game. No, they usually don't know your home address by the help of some mysterious forces. Yes, you do have to go outside to places where the real living people are. No matter how much you appreciate your home. As long as you want to find someone you HAVE to LEAVE your home. I mean it literally: Leave = Go away = Spend your time somewhere else = Abandon your lazy bed = Do not watch your TV = Try something new. Now this seems so obvious that nobody would ever call this an advice, but remember you can have a lifestyle where you spend most of time without any girls around (like a crane driver going straight home after work). You have to go where people are.  You have to make friends, who introduce you to new friends. In other words: No dream woman will ever fly into your kitchen thru the window just because you suffer. Do you know someone who has spent some time in a foreign country? Even if it was only for a month most of them will agree that it has been a valuable experience with a lot of impressions and probably many changes of attitudes. So even if you're not leaving the country: Change your position.

Go where the Girls are

Since I think I made myself clear in the advice Leave your home, we come to step #2: Increase the chance to find a woman. How can you do that? By going to typical "female" places! In other words: If you go to places with more women than men then you have more chances. This may sound logical but men (including you) usually don't go to "female" places. The following places are typical meeting places with many girls or where girls outnumber the boys Single clubs. Dating groups. Aerobic classes (many women!) Fitness studios. Fitness studios are actually a "triple feature" In Fitness Clubs are more women than men You will increase also your own body fitness You may meet women who want to get in shape because they want to find a boy-friend themselves Dancing schools, e.g. Samba, Hip Hop etc (remember, woman LOVE a good dancer). Adult evening classes Pottery classes Ballet schools (Oh, well, I don't really expect you to become a ballet dancer, but there are many long-legged girls there) Universities with many "female" subjects as "languages", "sociology", "psychology"... Libraries. You can start to chat with a woman when she's having a break. Quiet bars (instead of loud discotheques). VIP rooms in discotheques. If a famous DJ puts on the music then there are sometimes groupies. Since not every of them can get the DJ, maybe they will date you. VIP rooms are also quiet places, thus good for conversations. Coffee shops. Woman like to sit and drink tea in a relaxed atmosphere. If you go during rush hours you are "forced" to sit next to a girl. Places where people go after work. These can be special bars where a lot of exhausted women are, wanting to relax and open to light conversation. Tourist places. If you live in a town with many tourists then you may consider visiting typical tourist places. Many female tourists are looking for a boy-friend. If they had one you would see them most probably hanging around together (since they are on holidays). Supermarkets/Market places. This is a good place, since many women go food shopping. There are even some "local rules" as: "Singles meet on Friday at the frozen food section". You should check in the internet or at single clubs what is considered as a "rule". You can even get a conversation up and going by starting to talk about food or recipes. ... You get the idea. Moreover: If you don't find somebody after joining, say, a pottery class, then you have at least some experience in pottery :-)

Change your Schedule
The advice Go where the girls are described the places you could visit. Now you could try to visit the same places/groups at different day times to meet a greater diversity of people. Different people go at different times. It could very well be that your own life schedule prohibits to meet women. If you are a "night man" then try to seek for a woman during the day and vice versa.

Change your Roads
You could try to change your usual route of going somewhere. Use the bus instead of your car. Use a different road. Use the stairs instead of the lift. Go shopping in a different shop. Walk instead of using the car. Take the other side of the road when walking. Use longer paths. It could be that the changing of "standard procedures" alone can "open you up" for something new.

Meet boys
Do not restrict yourself to a pure "meet girls, girls, girls" attitude. Make new male friends. Sooner or later you will meet their friends and their friends and... more girls.

Make yourself known

This is a continuation of the dating rule Leave your home. You have to spray on every wall, that you are a single and are looking for a girl-friend. Thanks to the internet this is a no-brainer. Here are a few examples what you can do to expose you as a single: Install ICQ (or other instant messaging clients). Type in all your personal data, interests etc and try to meet similar people. As I wrote in Meet Boys, your target should not necessarily be "females" but also males, who can introduce you to others. Join as many online dating agencies (= personals networks) as possible. Publish your photo in every of them. 1 photo says more than 1000 words. Make a website regarding your hobby (or regarding whatever). Nearly every software you need (for your PC and online) to start a webpage is free. Post your photo on your website and describe yourself. You can post the URL of your website in every of the dating networks. Please also read Use business cards and Know who you are.

Eye-to-eye telepathy

When you see a girl and would like to date her then tell her thru your eyes. Look into her eyes a bit longer than you usually do Communicate your self-confidence by "eye signals" Communicate your willingness to date her by "eye signals" Communicate some "fun factors" (= how much fun you could have together) by "eye signals" Don't be too shy. If you are even too shy to look then you need to change your attitude fast, because this eye2eye technique is merely THINKING while looking. There is no sense in being too shy to look. Consider the eye-to-eye signals as the first step of dating/mating. If you receive a "No go eye answer" then try it with someone else. Basically this is another Make yourself known rule: Let the girl know that you are ready, able and willing. It's just communicating a big "YES" without words. Please also read She thinks you communicate like her.

She-eye to Shy-eye
This is the Eye-to-eye telepathy rule but vice versa: The girl looks at you first. Communication thru eye contacts is so essential that I write this rule to underline its importance and to make it even more clear,