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Thinking man |
The typical things women find the most repulsive are not
listed in priority order. This list simply outlines errors that are
mentioned frequently by clients of online dating sites. However, it’s
worth noting that ladies and gentlemen differ in what puts them off.
This is why dating advice for men varies from tips for females.
1. Negative Comments about her Appearance
Specific
points include the woman’s weight, makeup, hair, clothes, and looks in
general. Unless you are a styling guru, avoid trying to point out
imperfections. Some dating coaches used to recommend negative statements
as a way to score with attractive females. But this practice is so well
known today that a smart lady will pick on it in an instant. She has
probably been approached by guys trying “negs” many times. Especially
during the online stage of communication, avoid negative comments, which
can be easily misinterpreted. Intelligent women prefer to be
complimented, particularly on their personal qualities or achievements.
2. Your Ex
You
cannot win with this one. Talking about your ex in a positive way will
make her jealous and speaking about problems in the past relationship
makes it appear as if you have some unresolved issues, commonly known as
“baggage.” No matter how much it seems to fit the conversation, avoid
bringing up your former partners.
3. Innuendoes
Certainly,
men seek contacts with the final goal of being together in a physical
way. It is normal. But hints about intimacy, special abilities or
prowess come across as extremely cheesy and lame, the majority of ladies
agree. Some guys start this type of innuendoes early on through texts
and chats, probably thinking it would help them to get the girl.
In reality, it’s quite the opposite.
4. Shirtless Pictures
Unless
you already have a lively conversation and she is the one starting to
show some skin in the photos she sends you, avoid emailing pictures
without a top on. The same applies to your dating profile: Keep the
shirt on. Countless young ladies stated that such photos make them feel
as if the guys were just interested in getting a girl to bed. This is
not what a decent woman is looking for in her potential date.
Sure, she
will enjoy your physique but it is not the most important part for her.
What she seeks is a man with substance. If you would like to share some
skin-revealing shots, ask permission first.
And absolutely, stay
away of sending pictures displaying your endowment. This, in the eyes of
women, equals visual assault. Guys posting this type of content
unsolicited are blacklisted in an instant. Certain dating sites even
have rules about it.
In
a way, tips #3 and #4 are connected. This is because the largest number
of women’s grievances on online dating sites is about the issue of
intimate pressure, real or perceived.
5. Pleasing Yourself While Thinking of Her
Apparently,
some men think that announcing to a woman that he was pleasing himself
with her image in mind should win her admiration. Tragically, nothing
can be further from the reality. Surprisingly, such statements are not
rare, female users report. This what makes ladies sometimes wonder
whether young men are able to think with their big head as opposed to
the smaller one. On the other hand, if you are trying to find a
sure-fire way to get rid of a woman and ensure she would run across the
street every time she sees you, this could be a perfect method. No
female finds a thought of her knight in shining armor performing
activities of this type (while thinking of her) bearable.
General Guidance
It
would be hard to mention all possible errors that a man can make while
chatting to an attractive lady online. The simple tip would be to think
before sending this text or message and certainly avoid getting too
romantic while intoxicated. As dating coaches agree in their advice,
building a good relationship is about doing a hundred things right but
to destroy a fresh connection, you only need one thing gone wrong.
Because
men are often the ones who take initiative, it’s certainly easier for
them to err. Still, a woman who truly likes you would forgive you if you
made a mistake and sincerely apologized. Watch her feedback and you
will be able to correct unintentional blunders. Being attentive to your
partner is the key to success in dating.
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