More on SEXual energy

Sex is an energy-centered act and what I mean by this is, when two souls
become involved a relationship of growth together, sex becomes the main source of exchanging their energy with each other.

To attain that level of energy exchange to happen at a soul level it requires both people involved in the relationship to accept that growth.

It cannot work with input from only one of the couple. Sexual energy is about dropping all your reservations, dropping all ideology, dropping all your walls and basically opening all of your gates for your partner.

It is about seeing yourself as the image of your partner's eye when two souls are joined in their sexual action and performance together. You are the image of your partner and it is through that image you grow.


In order to create an energetically established relationship you must be in the right relationships with the right partner in the first place. How many of us today are with the right partner and for the right reasons? How many of us are strong and wise enough that they do not allow their past experiences to interfere in their new ones? How many of us have the courage to accept and allow a new experience to take place in their lives with a new partner they have met? How many of us openly accept our partner for being the way they are and not the way in which we want them be? How many of us are willing to take that extra plunge into some unknown and unfamiliar territory?

Our universe consists of an abundance of energies of which are in existence all around us. These energies exist as the people we meet in our daily routines, the objects we touch to our state of mind and well being. Sexual energy is connected to the vastness of energy which is available for our access and at our own disposal. Why don't we make full use of these energies? The answer is very simple! Again, it is our narrow minded, 'human' way of thinking.

How many of us believe that if things in this world cannot be proven by science, then it means they do not exist? How many of us believe and react to new opinions or observations "That's not the way I learned from my religious teachings!" How many of us believe that our parents dismissed such theories on the conclusion that they do not fit within the traditions and family belief systems and perhaps they were concerned with what other people would SAY about them if they thought that way.

Learn how to open your gates and drop your human shield without any creating expectations of your partner for what they will do or don't do for or to YOU. Do not bring any of your old baggage into new relationships. It is not the same energy. This is not the same person you are involved with now. Until you learn how to do this, you will risk running into the same patterns of your old relationship situations. Learn to let go, forgive yourself, others and move in your life.

How successfully we can build our sexual energy in our relationships reflects how much we are willing to try our best to bring comfort to our partner. This requires cooperation between both partners without one being left behind. The "ME, ME, ME?" style of attitude will defeat the purpose of this intention and we will always find ourselves in stagnation until we learn the relationship is not all about us.

We are or at least 'should be' the reflection of ourselves in our partner. The more we invest in our partner, the more we will see that investment being returned to us, but multiplied.

Do not allow fear to interfere for there is no place for it here. When you invest fully in your partner and know you have done your best to do so, you should never be hurt moving on after the time comes for your relationship to end. You will never feel regret or guilt by saying "what if I did this or that?" There is no "what if?" in our life.

Only, when you know you have invested your best into making it work, there is only "I did my best to make the best I could've of out my experience in that relationship" and with that you will be able to move on in peace into a new relationship experience. When one partner is not ready to invest there is nothing you can do. However, if you see that they are trying to do their best to make things work, then help, but without abusing or taking advantage of them.

So, on a final note, invest in your relationships, invest in exploring your sexuality and invest in your growth because in the end it is all about you! You are always the winner at the end. Just think of that for a moment!

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